From Oshoba.it
First, you have never been accepted as you are by your parents, teachers, neighbors, society: they all seek to continually improve to make it better.
A continuous negative conditioning, has created in you the idea: "Even as I do not go well, something is missing. And I have to be elsewhere, not here: this is not the place where I should be, I expect something higher, more powerful, more dominant, more than a bigger fame. "
This is only half of this unpleasant story, it would be better not happen: it could easily be avoided if people were a bit 'smarter in their being mothers, fathers and teachers. You must not plagiarize the child must help the development of self-respect, self-acceptance.
But the second part is of immense importance. Even if all these conditions were eliminated - and deprogrammed come all these ideas are taken out of your mind - however you will feel not up to, but that will be a totally different experience. The words are the same, but the experience will be different.
You do not go well in the sense that you could be more. It will not be famous, respectable, powerful, rich: that will no longer be your concern. What to focus is the fact that your being is only a seed born, do not you come to the world as a tree, only grows like a seed, and you have to grow up to reach flowering: the bloom is your contentment, fulfillment.
This flowering has nothing to do with power, nothing to do with money and political games: it has something to do only with you, this is a progress of the individual.
A seed has to travel a long time to bloom. This drive is wonderful: you are given by nature itself. But the company so far has been very smart, change, divert, distract your natural instincts into something socially useful.
These are the two that give you the feeling that, wherever you are missing something: you have to get something, achieve something, to become a conqueror, a climber.
Now you need all your intelligence to establish clearly what is your natural instinct, and what is the social conditioning: Get rid of social conditioning, it's all rubbish! So that nature remains pure and uncontaminated. And nature is always individualistic.
flowers grow and you could become a rose, somebody else could flourish and become a daisy. You're not superior because you're a rose, he is not less because it's a daisy: Both have come to bloom, that's the important thing, and that flowering give a deep contentment. Each
frustration, all tension disappears on you descend a deep stillness, a peace that passeth all understanding. But, as before, you have to totally get rid of the garbage of society, otherwise it will continue to distract you.
You have to be rich but not wealthy: wealth is something else. A beggar can be rich and poor can be an emperor. Wealth is a quality of being.
